YOUR PRESENT GIRLFRIEND/FIANCEE IS NOT YOUR WIFE, NEITHER IS YOUR PRESENT BOYFRIEND/FIANCE YOUR HUSBAND!!!

Take a minute...

Imagine you are fortunate by God to know who your eventual wife will be,to whom you'd get married to in 3 years time.

Now, come back to the present...

Her name is Stella and she is currently dating a guy. The guy,Caleb happens to be someone you know and he constantly tells you what transpires between them which includes the practise of all forms of sex skills and the fact that she has done about 2 abortions on his account.

He goes further to tell you that they've both agreed to keep aborting until they are actually ready for marriage.

THE QUESTION IS...

1. Based on your knowledge of Stella being your destined wife, how will you take what your friend tells you?

2. Will you advise him to continue having the fun of his life?

3. Will you encourage his decision to continue on abortion sprees?

4. Will you watch the destiny of your future wife being murdered on the altar of self gratification and indiscipline?

I NEED YOUR HONEST ANSWERS PLEASE!!!

I want to state emphatically at this point that...

1. No matter how long you have been in courtship with someone and the assurance you have that one day you will get married, that still does not confer marital status and obligations on you.

2. No matter the vows you've made to stick together and the number of family and friends that have agreed to your union,that does not make her your wife or him, your husband.

A man is not your husband nor a woman your wife until the day you make your vows before God and before people!

I have seen courtships break, 2weeks to the wedding day. He/she is not your wife/husband until the day, hour, minute and then second that you exchange your marital vows!!!

So, let's go back to our illustration.

If you wouldn't want that guy to continue having sexual knowledge of your wife to be and destroying the walls of her womb at every abortion attempt, that should tell you something very clear...

YOUR PRESENT GIRLFRIEND/FIANCEE IS NOT YOUR WIFE, NEITHER IS YOUR PRESENT BOYFRIEND/FIANCE YOUR HUSBAND!!!

You are therefore in clear terms, taking what is not yours and that is the definition of stealing.
According to the Arcus Dictionary,Stealing is when you take something without the owners consent.

Have you sought the content of that lady's husband and guy's wife?
Has Caleb sought your consent to continue having sex with Stella?

Friends, as you await that wedding day, a glorious and expected union of legal commitment with the one you love... Treat every man/woman as your sister/brother.
How would you rather handle your sister/brother?
It's all in your understanding!

Be Wise!

You know God says that as long as the earth remains, seed time and harvest time will never cease?
As you continue to pin down another person's future spouse on the altar of sexual pleasure, remember that someone else is pinning down yours and destroying her physically and emotionally while you approach.

Ask yourself a question or rather look back at the present!
Can you count 5, 10 or more relationships you know were started and even won awards of best couples while in school but never married?
I'm sure if you don't have 10 examples, you should have at least 5.

Taking it further, have you not heard of people who have said... God said this is my wife and then the lady also confirms it but they never got married?

That's an assurance that not every courtship is guaranteed for marriage until the actual wedding second!
That lady and that guy is not yours, until the day you say I do!

Married people share EVERYTHING including their bodies.
Sex with another outside marriage is an illegal marriage. That is why some people who are legally married today,struggle with breaking free from their previous illegal marriage!

Think deep.
Keep keeping yourself.
It's worth it after all.